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My wife has lost spark in our marriage
Hello..i am married since 8.5 years and having a kid too. We are one of the happiest couple since then until last few months even though we have very rare sex life since last 4 years. She has lost interest in sex she openly said. From last 3 4 months even we are having very stressed life and she confirmed that she had an old friend she is getting attracted towards him. She knows those thing takes you no where then also she is very confused. And for me it's tough to accept. How to handle this situation.
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You need to have a post marital counseling sessions to over duch issues.
Both needs psychological assistance.
Get in touch with an expert counseling Psychologist asap.
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Go for counseling sessions soon.
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Stress plays a lot of negative roles in intimacy between married couples. Not only that, unless there is constant communication (including expression of intimacy) between the couple, there is a likelihood of “boredom” settling down between them. We are, in our social environment, wired to deny the existence of such boredom. Stress and the expression from your wife that she is getting attracted towards someone else are adequate to damage the intimacy between both of you. Both stress and feeling closer to someone else are quite natural (despite the latter being considered to be a taboo in our society) and these feelings are often passing. Give it some time. Communicate well with each other, take a break and change your regular routine by travelling etc. and reignite the feelings without blaming each other and accepting the situation as it is. Work to improve it after that. Please know that in life, there are no perfect and everlasting feelings, emotions, intimacy etc. The ups and downs in these, if accepted with sensibility by both of you without opening any Pandora's box about the past, will bring back normal, intimate life for both. For this, please take the help of a psychologist.
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Both as individuals rake counselling session.
If she is not on board you can
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mindfulness
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You and your wife have been feeling stressed since last three to four months. You and your wife will require couples therapy sessions.
Do not worry counselling sessions will help you.
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Consult a psychologist
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Contact me for counselling session. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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Consult for couple therapy
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counseling
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connect
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Consult a psychologist for couple therapy sessions
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consult
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... You both need to take Marital Counselling to overcome this predicament in your marital life. If she is unwilling, you alone can seek Individual Counselling to help you find a way forward. Loosing interest in sex is very common among married people in their 30's/40's. But feeling attracted to someone else outside marriage is not based on any age or lifestyle related factor. This has to do with one's psycho-emotional brought-up and moral values. It's not your fault and you need to be very clear about it.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Marital Counselling or Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Senior Psychologist
Cell: nine six seven one three zero three one three four
Website: https://gunjanmaithil.wixsite.com/therapy
App: http://wix.to/fechb08?ref=cl
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Ms. Manasi Tambe
Counselling Psychologist
2 yrs exp
Pune
Hi,
You'll require couple's therapy
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consult psychologist
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