Mental disorder. Her she won't listen.

Hi it has 2 years I married to my wife.she has following problems.. 1. She defends herself for all of her mistakes,like losing a engagement ring,losing a phone.if anybody try to guide her she won't listen. 2. Many situations she lies to cover her mistake or blame others for her mistakes,or provoke others to make mistakes n highlights it to compensate her mistakes,but never confess her mistake 3.most of her work can't be done by herself,she makes it done by any person,even recharge. 4 she don't want a child,she wants to njoy her life with pubs, disco,too much of beauty cautious,always she feels somebody is admiring her,she always feels she has been loved by her colleagues n other people. 5 she wants me to praise her ,care her,etc,but she won't do the same,if I don't she scolds,abuse with slang words. 6. Never discuss about future,family life. 7. Threatens and commands, and expect love. 8. Creates negative impression on other people who r ethical ,true and out perform her.