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Hey, Your saying or doing anything would not help much at this particular point of heightened emotions, where your husband is disillusioned with certain expectations of his not being met. It takes certain understanding & communication which might be hard to achieve on your own. However, As long as you both are committed to this marriage, it can be shaped in a wonderful way. It's not his fault that he had to leave you in between for some reason or it's not your fault that you got lonely and had relation with another guy after break up. It was all situational and probable at that point. It's good that you both still liked each other and could get together again in a stronger bond. At this point It would surely help to see a couple counselor/therapist and get the things into perspective. You both love each other & need each other. Him being depressed about past & you being guilty can turn into something valuable in the present & lay a strong foundation for a marriage with trust & commitment for future. Take Care