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I HATE MY LIFE...PLZ HELP

HELLO DOCTOR, I DON'T LIKE TO LIVE. I HATE MY LIFE. I GET VERY ANGRY ABOUT MY LIFE. I FEEL LIKE LIFE IS A TORTURE AND IT ISN'T WORTH LIVING. I HATE EVERYBODY. TILL MY CLASS 10 I WAS A VERY GOOD STUDENT. AFTER THAT MY LIFE CHANGED DRAMATICALLY. I DISCONTINUED MY STUDIES FOR NO REASON BUT JUST BECAUSE I HATE EVERYTHING. I AM BEING HOME ALONE FOR NEARLY 4 YEARS. I FORGOT EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENED IN MY LIFE. EVEN I FORGOT LANGUAGES AND REALLY DON'T KNOW HOW TO SPEAK. I FEEL EMPTY AND COULDN'T REALLY ADAPT TO ALL THE SOCIAL CHANGES THAT HAVE HAPPENED IN THE WORLD. I HAD LOT OF FRIENDS PREVIOUSLY. NOW EVERYTHING HAS BEEN CHANGED. PEOPLE TALK ABOUT HAVING GIRLFRIENDS AND ALL THAT WHICH MAKES ME FEEL VERY DEPRESSED. THINGS LIKE MULTIPLE PARTNERS, SEX PARTNERS, LIVE IN RELATIONSHIPS, SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE,ONE NIGHT STAND,BREAK UP, FINDING ANOTHER PARTNER,SEXUALLY ACTIVE etc ARE NOT GOOD. THINGS GETTING MORE WESTERNIZED.LOVE IS A VERY GOOD FEEL.ALL THESE THINGS GOING AROUND IS NOT LOVE.Help me.TY
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Ms. Sneha Bhat Bangalore | Counselling Psychologist
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Hello Young Man, Firstly I have noticed how strongly you feel about everything you are conveying. Your life hasn't been one smooth ride. You have abandoned a smooth life with success & popularity at the tender age of 16 and have created a shell around yourself for 4 long years. It takes lot of strength to live that way. It's time to come out of the shell and create your life the way you want. You are ready to embrace your life now. There could be lot of physical attraction and less feelings in current state of relationships however your life is called 'yours' because it's your own. You make it the way you want irrespective of your surroundings. I would want you to bet on yourself for a change and start fresh by visiting a psychologist you could trust. A professional could help you to break free and start loving your life again. Take Care.
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