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I dont know want can i do

Actually my husband had 2nd marriage. And he want both of us.we r married before 11yr.now he had his second marriage 1month before. He want that girl and also me.we have 2kids.10yr and 5yr old.now I really hurt.I just want to die.before 3yr he is having an affair with some other girl,till that time m started smoking and cigarette. Now I can't stop that.and m also trying to suicide 2 times.still now m just trying.. I need a psychiatrist help??m malayali.m just studdied plus two.in my 16 me and my hubby love each other.after two yrs we r married.the first day of my love and the time I write this letter,I love my hubby very much.but can't share my hubby.so I want to move on.but he don't give me divorce and also dont want to given divorce that girl.he want both of us on his bed.now what can I do..I need help for my kids better future.m also love my kids very much.my hubby forcing me emotionally to adjust with that girl, that I can't..pls answer me any one.
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Dr. Vikas Khanna Delhi | Hypnotherapist
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Tell him that if he can adjust to one of your boyfriends, so can you.He seems to be oversexed, in that case if you are o.k with ,let him keep her somewhere else,if you think you are dependent on him. What we call love is overlapping of mutual interests. If you get the financial support you may choose to Move on ! May like.to read this www.lovenotthyneighbour.blogspot.in
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Ms. Hema Sampath Bangalore | Clinical Psychologist
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Hello good wife, Ask yourself what do I want whether my husband or children or me? Be clear in what you want. If you love your husband and wanted to live with him who can financially support or both of you stay away from that girl because yours is the legal marriage and your children only has all the rights of his wealth. Wait and see what happens. Ask him to keep her in a separate house so that you do not get irritated every day. If possible consult a counsellor in your local area for a better support. Take care.
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