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I am not able manage in laws
Bit confused in life I am a network engineer with 8yrs of exp and now I am joining MBA B school with work and study program and hence want to be off technical field and move towards management. But my salary will come down but I am going to married very soon and my in laws are strict with salary and my salary will come down from 8 lacs to 3.5 lacs but I will have peace of mind so please advise me what do I do your answer will be very useful..
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Frustration will keep building if you continue to hold back. Please reach out to understand mind management. It will empower you to handle situation with confidence
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Are you firm with your career choice?
Do you see your career path clearly?
Are you clear with your career goals?
If you have positive answers of above questions, you can pursue your career goal, no matter what. Follow your passion and pursue vibrant career.
Discuss your career plan and passion with your prospective spouse and in-laws. Indicate that you plan to pursue a passionate career which will reduce my income until I complete my study.
Hope your spouse and in-laws will understand you and respect your career decision.
If you are still confused, feel free to consult me. I would be happy to help.
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You need to see your convince and satisfaction. In-laws or any other person in ur life can’t take ur peace until you allow. Be clear with ur terms and conditions and tell ur spouse about your priorities. Ur spouse should be supportive and make his parents understand what you want in life. Stop worrying about in-laws.
Salary doesn’t matter what matter is ur satisfaction where you work
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Concentrate on your work not on anyone else happinesses
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Work as per your wish
Do things to cheer yourself
Spend time with spouse
Do excersie
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Ms. Chellam Narendiran
Psychologist
10 yrs exp
Coimbatore
Hi,
Do understand your current situations as cat on the wall. If you decided to go ahead with your career choice you need to talk with your fiance and in-laws very openly about it as it should not create problems in the future. Few tips:
(1) Prioritize your choices.
(2) Be open for discussion and take a conscious call of yours.
(3) Think twice before taking a call. Once decided be ready to face it.
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Ms. Radha K
Counselling Psychologist
9 yrs exp
Bangalore
Before evaluating your choice/decision in the context of a relationship with your in - laws -to - be, taking a step back and re - examining what inspired you to take such a step in the first place ( joining MBA B school ), your aspirations and goals and the impetus for the same, could be helpful.
Once you have clarity about the strength of your convictions, you will be in a better place to take further steps.
Although superficially this might look like something to do with your in - laws - to - be, what could be really calling for your attention and needs to be addressed is your level of faith/conviction in the choice/decision you have taken. ' Challenges are opportunities in disguise '. So, rather than seeing this as a threat, treat this as an opportunity for your own growth and welfare.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Yes, it is a tough situation which comes with a tough choice..
As I understand your situation, I think you had taken a decision to go ahead and pursue your academics already..
And I believe, that you would have discussed with your fiancé about all these things..
Hence, it is better to proceed further in Belief that after your MBA, you maybe placed well with a decent salary..
For a detailed discussion and understanding you can reach me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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