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Initially after my marriage my husband and in laws were repeatedly telling and finding me a book full of mistakes always that too many problems were like my husband goes and tell his parents my husband and mother in law puts me in room and interrogated me questions and make me cry .my in laws were not close to me and never discuss with me anything they treated me like a outsider my in laws and my husband never interacted with my parents not even single time Only my parents has to talk voluntarily. These things made me mentally totally disturbed and was living in that house with full fear like when they will tell me mistakes. But when I questioned my husband he never accepted that he is telling me and my mom are telling for our betterment but u misunderstood that was totally not acceptable by me I was totally hurted which after that I couldn't forget those incidents it was like panic attack for me and safeguarding his parents mistakesbecause of that Icouldntforget pastdisturbingmy life
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Hi friend you have shared some of your challenges after marriage and taken one positive step to consult a specialist ! Thank you . Further clarifications and suggestions will be required, You have to be strong enough to resolve such challenges systematically by attending psychological sessions .
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Ms. Radha K
Counselling Psychologist
9 yrs exp
Bangalore
I understand.
I want you know that there is a future waiting for you and you are going to do just fine. You are going to take baby steps towards doing what is required and what is right. I want you to honor and respect this beautiful life that you have been blessed with.
I want you to take the time to answer a few questions :
What would I do if I were not afraid?
What would I do if I knew I would not fail?
No matter how impossible the answers may seem, I want you to believe and know that you can make them possible.
Where would you like to see yourself ten years from now?
What should you do to reach there ten years from now?
I know that from time to time, your thoughts will return to focus on your husband, your in-laws, your parents and your past. Accept them as part of being human and bring back your focus again and again to the answers that these questions demand.
You are going to do great. You are going to be fine. You are never alone.
Take care.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
I can understand your hurt and pain you went through..
I suggest you both to Consult a Marriage Counselor to overcome this issue and to lead a happy married life.
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