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Friendship issue
Hi I am 40 yr old women.i broke up with my friend 2 yr ago..her daughter and my daughter plays together. They use to have same set of friend.now her daughter  has gang up against my daughter by gifting them and calling other children at her home and leaving her..now my daughter who is 8yr old is very alone..they call her fake friend and don't play with her..how should I deal with this ..plz help my child and me..thanks
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You both need counseling sessions to overcome the issue. You need an expert psychologist.
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Hi , Talk to a Psychologist, it is good to talk to someone who is not personally involved and gain perspective . Regarding your daughter, encourage her to talk about her feelings about what’s going on and empathise with her , help her to develop coping skills. Practice positive self-talk together, be a role model to your daughter. Keep the communication lines open your daughter will navigate through this, empowered by having learned to deal with this by experience. Friendship is very important for children they grow up into emotionally healthy adults , so be a friend to your daughter while you encourage her to make friends or maintaining her friendships if that’s what she wants , also , teach her those skills that would help her make good choices. Try boosting mood techniques which will help you both like outdoor activities, connect with people whose company you both enjoy , exercise , learn something new .
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Hi,You can have a peaceful talk with your friend about it . Consult a psychologist for professional help
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Hi You are upset about losing your friend and you are upset about your daughter losing her friend. You are feeling upset and hurt about the way your daughters friend is treating her. Your daughter is feeling upset and lonely. You and your daughter can consult a psychologist for counselling sessions. When a good friend is not in talking terms with you, it can hurt. Therapy is a warm and comfortable space to talk about anything that is bothering you.
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Contact me for counselling sessions. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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There is a lot I want to mention it..I know how difficult  it is..but its right time to help your child to look for her own path..girls who are calling her fake are unfortunately  themselves  fake
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Hi... This may not sound very good to you but you need to understand that you and your daughter are two separate individuals. She does not need to internalize your perceptions of self, significant others, and the world around. She needs to develop her own, independent of yourself. As parents, your job is to help your child find her way and not to put them onto a way that you deem fit for them. They don't need to learn how you learnt or what you learnt. Otherwise they will also reach where you reached and loose where you lost. What is the point of having a next generation if they keep suffering from same issues that we did and learn the same solutions that we learnt. Progress is when they go ahead of you. When they learn to handle their emotions, their relationships, and their lives in a more meaningful and productive way than we did. Try thinking like a guide and not like a protagonist. Try thinking what one could do best in such a situation? One small method is to let your child decide how she wants to deal with this situation and help her learn her way out. You can be there for her if she fails or receives a set back but at least she will learn to deal with problems on her own. On the other hand, you also need to do the same and address your issues with this former friend of yours. You don't need to be friends with her again but you both can always try to remove this extra toxicity and awkwardness. It may also help your kids learn a lesson in forgiveness and that relationships can be made normal again even when they are stretched beyond a point.
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If possible, would suggest you to consult a psychologist in person to share and discuss your issues personally and get some clarity..
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