I have listed just a few of them in the previous post. I was in a relation for more than 4years. In between for 1 n half yr v were separate, because of problems. Then after that somehow v came back. N then i started getting possesiv about him hanging with his first love. I am his second. I used to cry badly, even when i know he loves me. I told him about this. He said he will leave her. But i dint want their friendship to break so told i will try to adjust. But 6 months passed and i couldnt adjust. So i finally asked him to leave her. He said he vont. Then i had to break up with him as i couldnt handle that crying alone always. 8 months have passed. I still love him and i try to say myself that m strong and i can be without him. But i know i cant and i want to be with him. Recently he messaged me to come back. But now i have started blaming him that he couldnt leave her for me and couldnt support me at my worst. I have started getting possessiv about every girl he hangs out with now.
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Trust is an important factor in a relationship. If you are not able to trust this person anymore, what will your relationship be based on? It is up to you to decide whether you still want to be with this person despite issues or you want to move on and start the process of healing from the break up. No matter what it will be your decision and you will have to face the consequences. Overall, my advice still remains the same. Seek support from close people and see a professional, as self harming thoughts need to be addressed asap.
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