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Constant fights with my Husband.
Hi Dr. I am 32 yrs old . I dnt understand that where we r going wrong. After every 3rd or 4th day we fight. Some or the other issue. I have a problem in his drinking. Could not able to understand how to explain. Normally he says that he loves me a lot as i can feel that but at the same time he fight like that i m nobody to him. He gets so hyper. I m tired of all such fights. Since childhood we r facing so many family issues , fights . It became difficult for me to face more. I know that i m a strong woman but cannot bare more. I always try to make thing work oit always go to him to make him speak but he is so stone hearted that never come first. If we dnt speak to each other it doesnt matters to him or if matters then also he dnt comes.plz suggest dctor what to do.
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Welcome to practo. I can understand the distress that you are through at present. One will have to consider and study about the triggering events that lead to such quarrels or fights which has resulted in the current state of discord in between you. Usually, when the interpersonal issues or problems are not openly discussed in-between the two partners tend to build up a state of frustration or irritation within the individual. And when there is an overwhelming stressful experience (a triggering event), the irritation or frustration that has chronically build up tends to get displaced on to the partner. Also one will need to investigate for associated problems of anxiety, depression, etc that are commonly found in such scenarios. A consultation to a marriage counselor/Psychiatrist would help. Hope you find this informative. For more information you can post me on my personal link. Regards Dr Pankaj Borade
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Visit a marriage counselor or Psychiatrist. Dont worry there is always a solution to a problem.
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