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Confusion and frustration.
I fell for a guy and he rejected me. But I still can't stop thinking about him. I thought he liked me too because he dropped hints. And, he isn't flirtatious. So I thought he was serious about me. Now I can't stop thinking about him. I love him and it's frustrating.
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Hello !! Medicines can wait !! But ur life can't !! Relationships can be very simple like a chord or can be as complicated as a manja (used for kite flying) as rightly described by Amit trivedi in his composition The more strength n force u apply the more entangled it gets.. but if u sit quietly, relax n do it patiently u can get rid of it easily.. So few questions u also need to ask : 1. Just because u thought he like u, how does it mean he really had loved you ?? May be he himself was not sure  (he knows it best) (P.S. liking someone n loving someone are two different feelings) 2. Just because u thought he was serious about you, how does that guarantees u that he really was serious ?? May be u were expecting a lot (as you must be putting a lot of efforts in it) & that made you have a dream of looking both of you together in future. (Yes..When dreams get shattered it affects a lot !!) 3. How do you define love as ?? may be his definition of love may not be the same as your definition of love ?? Meaning, he might hav a totally different thought about love n relationships n we can't deny that or object it. 4. Over thinking many a time happens out of curiosity about what went wrong ?
Next Steps
Time is the best medicine for you !! Take a holiday. Relax. Spend time with friends & family. Do regular exercise. N Wait !! Life may have another surprise for you..
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Forgive & forget !! If nothing works take a consultation.
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