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I am a 27 years old guy, have a decent job and as per my working profile i am happy with my position and pay. But one thing i always get hit by is i don't have a proper professional career degree. As i have opted for a professional course i 2018, but couldn't be able to complete due to my own problems, laziness, Procasinations and delaying studies which has led to a drop in studies. Maybe in next years, i may get married and due to the society pressures i may not be fit for a girl as per my career qualification. This thing has hit me hard and i am always worried about it. I want the things to start again and i want to properly study again but i couldn't be able to do and i am failing everyday. I am really feeling helpless and hopeless. And i don't have good friends too that i can share my feeling and problems with them. Even i can't share my feeling to my parents as they are still beleiving in me and i am unable to prove them right too. Please help me, what can i do next to tackle it.
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Hi,
Challenges are meant to make us stronger & wiser. we just needy deal with it mindfuly. This ups & downs are imp where you realized your own potential & work through it. With proper guidance & counseling you will come out of this.
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Hi, Consult a psychologist
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It seems to be performance anxiety. It can be treated well with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively.
You need an expert Psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
You need a holistic approach to overcome the problem.
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Ms. Simran Dugar
Mental Health Counselor
3 yrs exp
Kolkata
It's common for people to face obstacles and delays in their career paths. The pressure from society and the expectations you might feel can indeed be overwhelming.
Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that everyone's journey is unique, and there's no fixed timeline for success. Your worth isn't solely determined by a professional degree. Now, to address your concerns, consider taking small steps. Break down your goals into manageable tasks and create a study plan. Seek support from professionals, such as career counselors, who can guide you in choosing the right path.
Additionally, if you're feeling isolated, don't hesitate to reach out to friends or family. Opening up about your struggles can provide emotional support. If you find it challenging to share with those close to you, consider seeking counseling or therapy. It's a safe space to explore your feelings, set realistic goals, and develop strategies to overcome procrastination.
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Ms. Sheetal Kusumbe
Counselling Psychologist
21 yrs exp
Thane
Hello,
You are feeling unsettled and the stress of being judged is bothering you as well.
You can pursue a degree successfully by choosing a subject as per your aptitude and interest. Learning is a continuous and life long process.
A degree alone is not a measure of your capability. A perspective shift can help you develop a more robust mindset. Few pointers that you are doing things the right way:
1) A degree leads to a good job and pay, which you already have and are satisfied with.
2) Parents believe and support you.
3) You are willing to learn and can certainly manage your degree with so many online, offline options available.
You can use your willpower and make optimum use of your potential.
Compatibility and your complete personality matters in your life choices. A career degree cannot alone be a deciding factor.
However, it is your life and live it by keeping the power of your happiness to your self and not giving it away to anybody else.
Counseling sessions shall be very beneficial for you to help you align focus and successfully achieve your goal.
More power to you!
You can consult for further professional guidance.
Happy Healthy Living!
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Ms. Simran Shah
Child Behavior Therapist
6 yrs exp
Pune
Hello,
Though the situation seems to be tough we can have a way out. There can always be choices of decisions you make which can have particular consequences. The question is, are you ready to study again? If not then what are the other alternative options you have? And if you are well settled in your career what makes you think that it will be difficult for you to find a partner ? So there can be a couple of such more questions you can ask yourself to get a clear idea.
Also, I would recommend you to take a therapy session which will help you to build up your confidence and make rational decisions.
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Ms. Smriti
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18 yrs exp
Bangalore
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