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Doctor I also have a fear about having an intercourse with my wife. Point is when we got married we thought of not having a baby initially as she was afraid of intercourse pain. So we postponed but point is though we wish to think of having intercourse now we are afraid now. Now am too afraid that having a intercourse will create pain or while trying to have it I may fail. Point is I satisfy myself by masterbating and I forget to have intercourse only
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First of all you need to understand the importance of good/healthy sexual life which is very important for a good relationship. For which you need to meet a psychologist/sexologist.
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Both of you need to understand reasons of being afraid of intercourse ,get out of fear , understand your bodies. It's not only actual intercourse always .
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Communication - understanding .
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You should consult with a professional Counselor for both of you .do not suffer.try to connect soon.
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I am of the opinion that you need to consult a gynaecologist to ascertain that your wife does not have any physical condition that is generating the fear of pain in her. Once that is done, also get guided by the gynaecologist on reducing the real or imaginery pain and on measures to increase the pleasure during sexual activities. Both you and your wife will have to also consult a psychologist to find out measures to improve the state of intimacy between you and your wife. If you have unknowingly fallen into a state of addiction to masturbation, that too needs to be addressed by the Psychologist.
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It seems to be phobia. It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated.
Counseling sessions would help you.
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you can contact me through online appointment for further assistance
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Hi. Please consult
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CBST
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treatable
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Ms. Divya Bhatia
Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Bangalore
"Thank you for trusting and reaching out to me about something so sensitive and vulnerable. Quite a few people are anxious of intercourse while doing it for the first time. However, this is not my field of expertise. I would recommend you to seek out professional help from a sexologist, both you and your wife.
However, what I can help you with is dealing with anxiety. There can be multiple causes of performance anxiety. It is important to reflect and find the reason behind your anxiety and discuss it with your partner. Awareness is the first step to overcoming anxiety. Additionally, communicating this with your partner will not only make you feel light but get you and your partner closer.
Furthermore, I urge you to seek professional help!
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Reflect on your thoughts
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If things still feel overwhelming, it would be advisable to talk to a therapist.
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hello there
I can understand what you are going through. You might be getting anxious, stressed, or scared while trying or thinking of intercourse. Dont suffer more. Talk to your wife as she might also be having issues. And then both of you consult a good Counsellor or Psychologist.
Both of you can also consult me. Let's talk about both of your issues so that both of you can reach towards your solution.
Don't worry, everything will be fine. Take care, stay safe and strong. You got this!!
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Please consult a Psychologist privately. These psychosexual issues can easily be treated with Counselling. Sex and intimacy is an integral part of a marital relationship and if you are experiencing such difficulties and fears, you both need proper assessment and counselling.
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Consult a Psychologist
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Ms. Hema Sampath
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18 yrs exp
Bangalore
It is better to consult a psychological Counselor by both of you to overcome this issue..
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