Bowel, Urine and Sexual dysfunction.

Hi, My age is 30 and I'm suffering from erectile dysfunction, lower back ache along with bowel and urine disorders. I have done urodynamics which shows external sphincter spasticity. I have shown top urologists but they dont have any perfect solution. Someone suggested to visit Pshyctrist and someone suggested botox to urinary bladder. I'm not gaining weight and I feel extremely fatigued. Also done blood sugar, stricture, lipid profile tests but all are normal. I feel pain in the right side bottom of urinary bladder. I wanted to know Is there any problematic of thyroid? But I won't sweat and also I'm not gaining weight. My height is 5.5 and I'm skinny fat.. Please let me know to which specialist I should show. I have tried ayurvedic and homeopathic and I dont want to choose both of these because I have lost many years taking ayurvedic and homeopathic medicines.