If you feel that your life is miserable in all spheres of life then consult a clinical psychologist.

Dear friend. First of all you should understand your own emotions. they are not always as you wish. they change every now and then according to circumstances, your experiences and the present situation. the problem you are in is the relationship that you made between your emotions and a particular situation which can be altered with cognitive restructuring

Hi, you can low the level of sensitivity with the help of Homeopathic medicine along with psychological counseling very effectively without after effects.

Hello dear I can understand how you are feeling. You are emotionally sensitive as well as not able to understand your own emotions at the same time. And as you attract negativity and negetive scenarios more, it makes you scared and confused at the same time. This might be one of the reasons of your negative behavior when you are hurt. There might be many other reasons as for why you get attracted towards negativity and negative situations as well as for your emotional confusion. You don't have to worry about this dear. Contact a Counsellor or a Psychologist. You can also contact me and I will help you get through this and exploring the reasons of your behavior as well as you leading to your road to recovery. Take care!