I will give you answer without getting into jargon or too much professional answers. The basic issue is you have invested your emotions in this particular guy and he has also invested emotions. Investments aren't easy to forget people kill each other or themselves if their business investment fails. What about emotional investment, we can change our emotions over time but it definitely impacts the quality of our next relationship. Help your current boyfriend to decide how he can become financially stable. Our advice is totally neutral it's you who has to choose.

You need counseling sessions to improve your perception and decision making skills.

Hi. Wait some years.

Hello Marriage is a very big decision and mainly depends on were your mind is more happy irrespective of what the situation is! Inner happiness and mental peace is more important in life. You need to relax and think about it clearly and keep both aspects in mind. Take your time after all its your own life!

Hello dear I can understand what you might be going through. As marriage is an important decision in your life. You might be confused between your emotions and practical life. Don't worry, consult a good therapist or a psychologist as soon as possible. You can also contact me and I will help you towards your recovery. Let's discuss your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solutions. Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!!

My suggestion is to look life from A Practical perspective.. You can find that friend in your future Husband also.. Why to rule out that probability.. Consult with a psychological Counselor personally either online or Offline for more clarity..

Hi... This is a typical case of approach- avoidance conflict. On one hand you want too keep this relationship as it is emotionally satisfying and on the other hand feel insecure due to financial/parents/future concerns. This requires a detailed understanding of your psyche and your situation. There are no right and wrong choices in such scenarios. Anything you choose will have consequences. So it is best to choose what you can defend for a longer period of time.

There can be numerous factors for a happy relationship, Before anything, let’s try to list down a few that are theoretically required for a happy marriage (or relationship) A loving partner Mutual respect and care Mutual trust Self respect Absence of piled up frustration emotional availability and maturity Dependability Sexual compatibility Financial security And last but not the least, your comfort level with each other, if you feel you can be yourself and don’t have to put up a different face or be pretentious, Only you would be able to see these criteria’s, if still have self doubts give yourself some time and after that let the correct person come in your life.

Hello First be relax, before taking any decision, just think about all the things.  Marriage is a important process in your life. The decision is yours, you have to choose the choice which one will be suitable for you. All the best for your future..