Hi
Understand that breakups happen. You're not alone. A lot of people break up everyday, and the pain that comes is NEVER easy.
In fact, most of your relationships are going to end in breakups till you finally find the one you’re meant to be with.
It's a learning experience you have to learn sadly, but I want to let you know that you CAN get through this.
Very likely, though there are things to be improved upon, your breakup isn’t a reflection on you. Very likely, it has more to do with your ex than you.
All the breakups I have seen so far, I find, always have unhappiness leading to them.
Cut off ALL contact.
Checklist (block and delete):
Email
Facebook
Twitter
Instagram
Any other social media
Phone number
Whatsapp
Any physical item that reminds you of your ex, throw away or put into a box to put somewhere you won't look at for a long time (closet, basement).
Harden your heart. THROW away anything that you don't want to keep and that hurts you.
Again, cut off ALL contact. Don't do the "let's be friends" thing. Third time: Cut off all contact.
Give yourself some time to grieve
And in that process consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling
All the best
Health Tips
Don't cut yourself if you feel the urge keep a marker handy and u can make marks with them... But don't keep any sharp object around..