Hi ,
You must first model the lifestyle that you want for your son , this means thinking through your own relationship with material things with a willingness to make changes if any are needed. When your actions match your words, it becomes a powerful example for our child to follow.
You could have a discussion with the family of how it’s affecting your son with emphasis to Model non-materialistic behavior.
- Value experiences over material things
- Talk to your son about money.
- Avoid material rewards — and consequences.
- Spend quality time together.
- Model disciplined spending and generosity.
- Shift your focus onto the needs of others. Charity .
- Foster gratitude, having and expressing gratitude can decrease materialism and increase generosity . Instilling good values . For example, feelings of gratitude can be enhanced by a daily gratitude reflection around the dinner table , keeping a gratitude jar .
Next Steps
Consult a Psychologist, you will be talking in a safe environment , this can help and guide you .
Health Tips
Role Model , children learn by example .