Hello,
What you went through before your wedding was deeply traumatic- betrayal, shock, and emotional harm from your partner’s family. Your body and mind are still reacting to that trauma, which is why you feel panic attacks, fear, shaking, sleeplessness, and strong emotional triggers whenever marriage or trust is mentioned. These are genuine post-traumatic symptoms, not weakness.
It’s understandable that trust issues developed, and it doesn’t mean you haven’t tried. You’ve been carrying this pain alone for too long.
Next Steps
1. Please consult a psychiatrist again—your symptoms lasting since 2022 suggest PTSD or trauma-related anxiety, both of which are treatable.
2. Trauma-focused therapy (like CBT) can help reduce flashbacks and triggers.
3. Medication may be needed temporarily if panic, insomnia, or anxiety are severe.
4. Couples counselling can help rebuild trust and communication with your husband, if you feel safe doing so.
Health Tips
- Practice grounding techniques during triggers: slow breathing, naming objects around you, touching a cold surface.
- Keep a sleep routine to reduce night-time anxiety.
- Avoid discussing painful topics when you’re already stressed; set boundaries with people who bring them up.
- Write down your emotions instead of holding them inside this reduces their intensity.
For more queries, Reach out for an online or in-person consultation:
📞 NEURONAL FIX CLINIC, RAMPRASTHA COLONY, Ghaziabad, (near Shreshtha Vihar, Delhi)- +91- 74XX52XX97XX67XX61