What happens around us effect us. But how much should it effect us is in our hands. People’s feedback about us is essential to improve our selves. But when people comment about you in a manner which is not desirable. The best is to ignore or be affirm and tell them that its not required. You cant change anyone’s behavior or attitude about things. What you can change is your reaction , behaviour and attitude. Stop getting bothered. It will do no good. Surround yourseld with people who make you happy. Develop on your skills. Consider dealing with the people who bother you as an opportunity to be more patient and wise.