Hello, The nature of your problem is very unclear to me. Are you talking about your girlfriend, or a girl you have a crush on? If it is that, share your feelings with her. And, if you are uncomfortable with people talking about her, let them know about it. Clear communication is necessary. Don't get grappled by emotions and thoughts that you might been bottling up withing you. Hope this helps. If you need specific advice about depression, kindly provide me with more details of your problem. Good Luck!