Hi... You are in a typical crisis situation where there are no right and wrong choices or even people for that matter. I can explain you the reasons why everyone is behaving in a way they are behaving, but it won't change anything. In a family situation, we can't choose to act on our insecurities or negativities. Not because we are perfect but because if we do that, the whole structure will eventually collapse. In such situations we need to take a break, find ourselves a breathing corner, and rethink our priorities and principles. The best way do deal with such situations is to act as a Leader. Do things that are right for everyone and not just ourselves. When we do that we not only relieve the tense situation, but also inspire others to overcome their insecurities.
Next Steps
Consult a Psychologist.
Family Therapy or Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Senior Psychologist
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