Head,palms and soles of small children are normally warmer to touch as compared to other parts of the body. Use a thermometer to measure temperature,if it's 100 or above,it's fever. For raising haemoglobin,give just 2 milk feeds and 4 solid meals a day and include iron rich items in diet such as eggs and green leafy vegetables like spinach. Also,deworm her using syp brandy plus 5 ml single dose.