Depression,negative thoughts,anxiety

2022-06-10 09:13:58
Hello,I am married since 3 years and in 3 years of marriage I was lived 1 year separated from husband.we were in unconsumated marriage from marriage still 2.5 years of marriage because ei have vaginismus and my husband has not problem the we are not doing sex.because of that I lived 1 year seperate.he don't have complaint that we don't have sex after marriage.He never pronounce a word regarding sex.i don't why we consulted many docters everyone said that you go for couple therapy.when we were 1 year seperated from each other we didn't feel emotionally connected each other.we did so many fights. In 5 months we did only 5 time sex.that only as a act.i dont have feeling for sex.because no lubrication over there. Ok used everytime KY jelly.my husband has full erection.again we went to Dr they said couple counselling .Dr said without emotional connection sex is not worth.after again we fighted.no our relationship is lead to divorce.in all the scenario .what to do.
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Do sports (at home, if you feel more confortable) but 3x 30min/week. Eat more greens, oilseeds, fresh fruits and food rich in magnesium such as: raw spinach, fish, beans, lentils, avocados, brown rice, bananas, figs and chocolate. If you have a pet, cuddle with it more often and take care of it. It will make you shift your focus from anxiety to something else. Try to catch the sun everyday for 10mins. Check your levels of vit D and B12 (adjust with supplements if needed). Yoga, you can find plenty of stuff online. Mindfulness meditation, it’s not hard, stick to it. When you feel anxiety, let it come, don’t fight against it. Take deep breath (inhale for 6 seconds, hold for 2, exhale for 6. Do it again). Just observe how tense and how bad you feel over nothing. Meditation can help to stand back. Sleep enough (7 to 9hours/night). Quit smoking and avoid drinking alcohol. Smile. Smiling, even for nothing, tricks the mind and releases happy hormones. Learn to manage your anxiety, it’s always going to be there because it’s a normal mechanism of protection but don’t let it rule you anymore. You are not alone.
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consult Psychiatrist/ Psychologist

Answered2022-06-14 07:10:42

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You can also consider receiving psychotherapy sessions for your concerns

Answered2022-06-11 06:47:08

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Kindly consult a psychiatrist in person.

Answered2022-06-10 09:29:45

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