Hi... What you are experiencing is a discrepancy between a childs expectation of love and warmth from a parent (mother) and the parent's ability to fulfil it, given the kind of environment s/he is raising their kids in.
This is a normal (which is again referential and not absolute) expectation for a teenager but not for an adult (28 year old male). Especially lying in room for days is a sign of an underlying condition.
Such behavioral patterns are usually learnt unknowingly through imitation from one of the parent.
Next Steps
Please consult a Psychologist for Counselling and Psychiatrist for detailed evaluation, if necessary.
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