First of all, congratulations on having a baby, You’re carrying too much alone, and it’s showing up as anger and exhaustion. What this really means is your mind and body are calling for care. First, your migraines, insomnia, and postpartum stress need medical attention please see a doctor, not just for you, but for your kids who need you well. Second, release guilt: your anger is a symptom, not who you are. Repair with your daughter through gentle talks and hugs after an outburst it matters more than perfection. Third, carve out small self-care pockets daily, even 10 minutes of walking, journaling, or breathing. And please, don’t keep silent whether through counseling, a support group, or even one trusted person, let someone in. You don’t have to do this alone.
Next Steps
With an introverted husband who avoids difficult talks, the key is not to push long emotional conversations but to make space for small, clear signals. , pick a right time to talk, not during a stressful situation, make your time out and talk to him gently, don’t argue. say “I feel overwhelmed and need support” instead of “you never help.” This lowers defensiveness. long talks may shut him down, break it into smaller asks over time.
Health Tips
Instant consultation with me for counselling and with psychiatrist for medication if needed.