There’s a lot of communication gap that we see in today’s times. 

What does one mean by communication? It is the act of sharing ideas, feelings and information.  

These days many people listen in order to react or give their advices, for free of course. But in this generation where people believe in keeping their stuff to themselves, what is more needed is that you just listen to the person talking to you solely for the purpose for listening. If the speaker is talking to you about her/his personal affairs, it naturally marks that she/he trusts you or your opinions matter. The speaker, once he finishes off, will definitely give you the chance to respond.

But nowadays, people hear about the matter partially and load you with their suggestions, even when they are not asked for.

Sometimes, the only thing people want is to be “heard”.

“The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply.” – Stephen Covey

What a human being wants from her listener is that he/she pays attention to what she intends to say and what her emotions are, at that particular moment or time – and just that.

Many of you might have experienced the fact that after a busy schedule of the whole day (or, sometimes days), when you talk your emotions out you feel lighter and easier. It is similar to lifting a heavyweight off you.

It is often said that to maintain a good relationship an important factor is communication. If you can communicate the hardest things with each other the relationship lasts longer (let that be any relationship, even the relationship of a doctor and a patient).

Homoeopaths are good at conversation. So people generally do feel better after having a hearty conversation with their doctor. Have you ever experienced that? If not, one must definitely think about it.

It is useless to put bandage over the wound that is filled with pus. One needs to remove the pus and then put the bandage on. And only then will the healing take place.

This is exactly the case of a human being suffering from a disease. Studies show that there are multiple layers in a case, one of which is suppressing your emotions and not giving it a proper path to show up. If one is keen enough, he/she might notice that after a long time of suppressing the emotions one gets the feeling of “not being-well”. It might just be the feeling that a person experiences subjectively. But over a period of time it might show up certain signs and symptoms and develop into a full-fledged disease.

So in cases like these one needs to get the hidden emotions out on the surface (similar to letting out the pus from an infected wound), and then shall one expect a speedy recovery.

A homoeopath does the exact same thing. She tries to bring out the suppressed emotions to the surface in such a way that the patient begins to feel better after few consultations. And because he/she feels better within, the healing process is apparent on the outside as well.

When a person heals from within, the environment around also heals (at least from the patient’s perspective) and this influences the interpersonal relationships as well.

One shall always remember it is not always the mental disease that pops-up in the form of signs and symptoms because of this bottling-up of emotions, physical disease like psoriasis, eczema, uterine fibroid, PCOD etc. can also take its place.

There are many social stigmas, out of which mental diseases has been the most common one. These days’ people are not very keen enough to meet psychiatrist because of this stigma. And yet we see the numbers of psychiatrists, all over the world, increasing.

The baseline is it is okay to ask for help; it is okay to communicate if you’re not feeling well. Stifling up your feelings is not going to do any good to anyone, so it is better to share them with someone.

It is important to communicate with someone, who can be ones friends, or family or absolute strangers or maybe homoeopaths as well.

What’s new is that one needs to learn to give people around the space that they require – that is also a form of communication these days.

If you’ve further queries or interested in seeking treatment, you can contact us at:

OMKAR HOMOEOPATHY CLINIC (VADODARA)

DR.GUNJITA YARDE (8488022804)

yardegunjita@gmail.com