Swollen lymph node (parotid gland)?

Hello doctor, My age is 30 now I am suffering from swollen lymph node (parotid gland) - since last 10years  ... left side only. The size doesn't decrease/increase! it has remained as it is since years! I can feel it ! I tried almost all E&T specialist! Done ultrasound many times , but reports was normal and few doctor told me that it's because of some chronic inflammation and Do some blood tests related to autoimmune system disorder! I did it and found i was suffering from autoimmune system disorder (Sjogren's syndrome). i am taking rheumatologist medicines since last 8-10 months ( like HCQS 200mg ) But the swelling hasn't decreased. Even doctor added one medicine called as predmet. But the swelling remained as it is! I have no sweating , pain or symptoms related to tumor ... What should i do? Please suggest.. i am literally tired of this thing and I don't want to increase my steroids medicines!! Should I remove the affected lump node (parotid gland)? Experts please guide me !!🙏🙏🙏