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Hi doctor .
He told someone else to give me a msg that he can't be with me .why didn't he said it to my face? Why did he took help from someone else ? Ik I can't control others actions .he didn't deleted my number yet and its been 20 days .when I got the msg my reaction was like okay if he wants this I respect his decision I simply deleted his number and I didn't contacted him asking why wasn't he able to say all this to me .so did I had done the right thing by not saying anything bad to him ? We didn't even fought .and seriously I didn't wanted to say anything bad to him if I can't say something nice .but were his actions justified? And why can't he just delete my number or block me as he was the one who sent a msg ? This thing is kind of funny and confusing he can't be with me but kept my number and even can't say anything to me and yes he is not coming online on that number since I deleted his number .
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Hello,
I do understand your concern, also if we are attached to a person so much it do affect deeply.
Contact a counsellor to overcome the same, try to induce the "self-love" quality in you to move on.
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Seek counseling sessions immediately to overcome the issue.
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He has told someone else to message you saying he can’t be with you. You are wondering why he did not tell you directly. You probably feel he is confusing you and you are not able to understand his behaviour. You did not ask him about the reasons for him not telling you directly about why he does not want to be with you. You are disappointed and frustrated by his behaviour. It sounds like you want to get a better understanding of why he has behaved in a certain way of not telling you directly about why he does not want to be with you.
You are feeling anxious, hurt, and disappointed. Give yourself space and time to heal. Give your mind and body rest and ensure to practice self-care.
Consult a psychologist and explain about his behaviour in detail.
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Contact me for counselling sessions. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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Ms. Sheetal Kusumbe
Counselling Psychologist
21 yrs exp
Thane
Hello,
It is completely human to feel the way you are feeling right now.As you have not received a proper closure from this relation.You were just seeking a direct communication on this.
However everything in life does not play out that we expect it to.Some things can be beyond our understanding.
To protect your peace and heal, you can contact for further consultation.
Counseling can help heal the dilemma you are facing right now.
Happy Healthy Living!
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... The real questions are:
1. Why you need someone else's approval for your own feelings?
2. Why can't you just feel what you feel and act accordingly?
3. Why are you ruminating about the choices he made or could have made?
4. Why are you thinking on his behalf?
The way your mind is playing tricks on you, it appears there is a tendency to think and feel this way, probably rooted in your childhood.
You need to rather address those repressed issues in your subconscious/unconscious mind.
Otherwise, there are lots of heartless and insensitive people in this world to keep hurting you again and again.
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Consult a Psychologist.
CBT along with Interpersonal Guidance and Counselling is required.
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