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Problematic behavior with other family
This question is specifically for Clinical Psycologist Mehak Arora before i approach you for further treatment: It is about my father's problematic behavior towards other family members mostly my mother. 1 - He overthinks about things and always tends to find/make negative things (fault finding) out of small small situations and then disturbs family. 2 - He keeps on complaining / taunting mother about past Incidents (even 15 years old) and on small small things happening in the present and mentioning old things. 3 - We talked to him multiple times to sort things logically but he keeps on making his point right and comes back to same behavior. He hardly tries to go by logic. 4 - 70% of the times he shows this behaviour from 11pm to 4am. sometimes he is found speaking all of a sudden around 2am in night. 5 - He also abuses while doing above. 6 - His background has been financially deprived from childhood, facing faliures, educated till class 12th. CAN THIS BE TREATED BY CBT?
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Hi Since I have been Assigned this query, I would like to answer it. I’m a counselling psychologist and though your question is directed to a clinical psychologist, I m happy to help Point wise answers to your questions 1) negative thinking or erratic behaviour is a result of some deep rooted issues your father must have or is facing 2) so here we notice that he brings up old issues and fights over them on present day. Which means old things trigger his emotional or irrational behaviour 3) a person who has Behavioural issues or irrational way of looking at things is definitely not going to look at things logically, he is bound to build up his own logic for his behaviour 4) my serious concern is this - 11-4am behaviour,speaking suddenly at 2am , abusing etc . Too early to diagnose as I need to talk and analyse- why is he awake at this hour and whom is he talking to ? Can he hear voices? See things or people talking to him ? Etc etc If so you don’t have to worry as the imbalance or deficiency of chemicals in our brain are responsible for this 5/6) ok so there has been series of events since his childhood which can’t be overlooked About treatment CBT may or may not work in extreme cases According to me we may have to use eclectic counselling or integrated counselling as I don’t just see a behaviour issue here , it’s much more deep rooted to something else
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Just refrain from questioning his behaviour. You should leave this to a professional ,as we don’t want any counter reaction in the process Take care
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