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Not able to penentrate
Hi,  Me and my wife (27) are married since two months.  We have not been successful for intercourse yet.  There are two issues: Issue 1- initially my wife used to feel pain when I inserted my finger into her vagina.  Since last few days I am able to insert one finger. I use Durex lube.  However, I am not able to insert more than one finger, neither able to penetrate with my penis.  Issue 2 - on some days, I automatically get an erection in the morning, however sometimes it happens during sex, that when I wear a condom the penis is no longer hard and fully erect. Sometimes, the penis looses erection after trying for intercourse one to two times. I never had this issue. I am not able to understand what is wrong.  Appreciate your feedback. 
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You need your wife to be examined by a gynaecologist and decide on the findings. Your loss of erection is more psychological as you intend not to harm your wife. Temporary drugs to support you will suffice
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Hi, what all that is going on with u couple is normal  so pls relax. Know u just use lubricant n try next time. It will work. Just enjoy n forget about anxiety that u previously experience.
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While havibg sex for first time, its best to avoid condom, as it interferes and at times a man loses erection after wearing it..... You both need to be counseled about proper coital technique There is no need to insert finger in vagina before penetration.....may be tge fingering is causing her to anticipate pain and that makes para vaginal muscles to go in spasm. Early morning erections are good. They suggest your sex drive is fine. Make use of this erection to have sex as usually it is more hard than other erection. I would recommend a women on edge of bed, and man standibg by side of bed position for sex.....
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