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Marriage fear and unable to decide
I am having a fear of marriage and I am not. Feeling confident about it.
I don't feel like talking to my fiancee and take things forward
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I understand you are anxious about marriage and you are not feeling confident about it. It looks like you are having second thoughts. It is important to identify what is causing you to feel anxious about marriage and what is making you have second thoughts. You and your fiancée can go for counseling. Do not worry with counseling sessions you can get clarity about your thoughts regarding marriage.
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Good day my Friend, I can understand your concern.
Fear is a very broad term. It's important to understand the root cause behind that fear. We learn many things from our experience, observation from family and society. This create some strong opinions or judgement or beliefs.
So it's better you take a counselling session to discuss and discover the root cause. Then there are many solutions available to overcome the fear.
Be positive. You will be alright soon
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Feel free to reach me online or in clinic session to assess your concern anr symptoms to recommend suitable solutions.
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Be aware, every individual is unique due to their upbringing, culture, society, lifestyle, environment, food habits, education, family values etc. So there is no one fit solutions for all. General advices, Google search, youtube videos won't give better results in handling individual's emotional disturbance. You need a have human touch to ventilate your feeling and emotions to identify the root cause of your problems . Then suitable solutions and therapies plan can be identified jointly.
Appreciate if you can take the next by talking to a counselor/psychologist.
Go ahead and connect with any of us online for better understanding of your problems.
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Hi. Psychotherapy is available
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CBT
Marriage Counseling
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Past issues to resolve
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Please provide all the details "about your fears" if you really need a solution
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Ms. Divya Bhatia
Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Bangalore
"Hey! Thanks for sharing your concerns with me. This sounds very difficult. As I do not know your entire situation, I may not be able to help you find the right direction. But these are a few things you can reflect on and make a decision, as you know your situation the best.
Cold feet before marriage is quite common. However, you need to understand if this is just cold feet or is it more than that?
How long have you known each other? Are you not feeling confident about the marriage or marrying your ""partner""? What makes you fear it? How do you feel when you talk or think about your marriage? Was it your decision as well to get married?
If you feel this is cold feet, here are some few ways to get over it:
1. Remember why you are marrying her. Remember the good memories, the qualities that attract you the most.
2. Communicate! Share your fears with your partner - family, kids, future, finances, career? Anything that is making you feel uncertain share it with your partner. This will make you feel lighter and closer to your fiancé.
3. Understand that this is a big and transitional phase and some amount of anxiety is normal. However, if it is going out of control, talking to a relationship counsellor can help you clear your doubts and feel more confident
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Reflect on your thoughts
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If things still feel overwhelming, it would be advisable to talk to a therapist.
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hello there
I can understand what you are going through. You might be feeling scared and stressed because of the rapid changes that marriage might bring. There might be many other reasons behind your problem. Some you know and some you are not aware of.
Don't worry, consult a therapist or a psychologist.
You can also contact me and I will help you towards solving your problem. Let's discuss about your issues so that you can find your solution.
Take care. Stay safe and strong. Relax, everything will be fine. You got this!!
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
It looks like that you hafe certain apprehensions about marriage due to various reasons..
I is better to seek a professional support to get a clarity and to take a better a out your future life.
Consult a psychological Counselor.
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You can reach me by using the link given below for more details and clarity :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi....Please seek professional help...
There is something called premarital counselling. You and your finance both can go together or separately for it.
It is best to understand each others conflicts, motivations, and expectations before going into a marital relationship.
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Seek professional help and guidance.
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Cell: Nine Six Seven One Three Zero Three One Three Four (whatsapp)
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