Hello doctor, I don't like consulting doctors for a disease because I have a different opinion on doctors. I have a poor self esteem. I think doctors belongs to high social class and I belong to low social class. I didn't study more than 10 th std. I don't know the right words to explain my problems. I think doctors won't listen to me properly or don't respect me because of their high social class. For eg. In cricket there were two types of cricketers. One the amateurs other the professionals. Amateurs belongs to high social class hence they got a huge amount of respect. Professionals were those who played for daily wages and belongs to low social class. I think the same I real life. I fantasize doctors are amateurs, who get more respect. On the other hand, people like me are professionals who doesn't get enough respect. These are my views about the world. Please explain me in such a way that I could learn these things properly. Please don't be harsh on me if I asked anything wrong. Ty
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Hello Dear,
I really liked your question & the way you asked it. You seem like a confused person with high intelligence. You might not have studied a lot however you think & question a lot which is good. Some of your experiences seem to have made you think that there is a class which is getting societal respect without deserving it.
When you mentioned cricketers, you are hinting that people who really work hard haven't been getting the recognition they deserve though they might be better than the people of higher social class who are getting recognized. This seems like your personal experience. Is it so..?? Were you weighed down sometime though you tried very hard..?? Has that pained you a lot. If we look at the general situation, how many of the mainstream cricketers do you think are getting undeserved recognition..?? I want you to list all their names & research if your assumption is true. It's true that there are things & times when a social class or richness might come handy however end of the day it is the depth of the talent & perseverance in building the skill that creates the true legend in any profession.
Doctors are people who have studied the science of healing. It is just another profession. You need not respect them just because they have a professional tag. Go ahead & test if they have additionally built the art of healing within them which is the true class. Check if they are amateurs or professionals by yourself.
If you are honest, hard worker & are highly skilled in any profession, you are a professional. The label of the profession doesn't create a professional but the quality of a person's contribution does.
Respect is something which begins it's stint at home. If you learn to love & respect yourself & start looking upon yourself as a professional, people shall follow your example. A profession might be weighed at certain level in society however end of the day a professional is an individual who has to create his own identity through his work. So a doctor's degree might be of high social standard however a doctor isn't of high social standard till he proves it with quality of his work.
Hope i was of some help in diluting the bitterness. Take Care & Keep thinking.
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Hello.. first of all I don't understand on what basis you are labeling them high class.
All doctors give respect to their patients and listen to them as they would be there to help you out. No doctor will be biased on the societal classes to listen to your problem and help.
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If you are feeling low and have low self esteem go to a nearby doctor who knows the native language. it would be easier to explain your problems in your language
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