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Hi this is Shikha Thakur. I'm having a boy kid of 8yrs. Actually his father died when he was 5yrs n I got married to my brother in law. He is very caring and loving. From last 3mnths my kid is continue lying, stoling money, having bunks from tuition. What should I do. I'm trapped up, in laws used to scold me that he is my first husband son that's y he is like that... Please help me please
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Hi Shikha. I know it must be very tough time for u. I get what is going on with your kid. Don’t let anyone blame you for anything. Let’s solve this problem step by step. 1) kids at this age are very adventurous. Scolding them or beating them won’t help. 2) constant and patient interaction with you and your husband will help. Convince your inlaws to talk to him instead of blaming you. No one learns these things from birth. So u don’t feel upset because someone is blaming you. 3) try some positive reinforcement techniques like giving him a pocket money. And use award technique telling that if he attends the tuitions on time and shows you his work there and gets good Marks, he will get motivated . 4) show him inspirational videos on YouTube.
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I know it’s been tough for u. It’s ok... handling boys at this age is tough . Don’t feel depressed
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Even u keep watching inspirational and funny videos on YouTube . If u need any more help, feel free to consult. I’ll try my best to help u out. Once again, u are the best mother u can ever be. Don’t bother what others tell about u otherwise.
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