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Found my boyfriend Sexting his client
I have been in a relationship since 05 years. He is the owner of the company I am working with.  We met in the office and fell in Love. We don't fight much. We are happy and we give space to each other in a relationship. As he is an entrepreneur, he is quite busy always. However I never had a problem with him for being too busy. Even our parents know about each other and marriage discussion is going on. He has even helped my father with money. Gave work to my mother so that she can earn for 6-7 months. My brother didn't complete his graduation. He has given him the job. I just have one issue that working in this company for 5 years and my package is way too less.3 days back. his whatsapp was open and I read his chat with one of his client. She had sent him her nude videos and photos. He has also shared gif and wrote her some vulgar things and even said love you in the chat. when I confronted him he said he talked to her just for fun and he is asking for another chance. what to do?
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Hi. I'm sorry. Be strong and accept the real context. Make your career ahead. I think you're quite young for marriage. If you cant accept his sudden behavioral shifts , you may be away from it. Differences in choices are present
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Thank you for reaching out to me with such a sensitive issue. I cannot image what you might be going through right now. Infidelity is something that no individual deserves. But I'm sure you'll do what's best for you. From what you shared, it seems like he really cares for your family and has helped you all. Five years is a really long time, so only you can know him and your relationship well. While making a decision, I want you to reflect upon - how did you feel when you saw his chats? Did he seem sincere to you while he promised it would never happen again? What are your core beliefs regarding infidelity? Have there been previous such incidents? The decision you make must be purely from what you want and how do you picture your future life. Just because he helped your family does not compel you to accept anything and everything. If and when a behaviour is unacceptable, you confront him and talk it out. In regards to your low pay, again, you can talk to the HR or the financial team, instead of him sirectly. If required later, you can put forth your need to him as well. It's okay to ask for what you deserve and need. Overall, I can understand how stressful this must be for you and I urge you to seek professional help that will help understand the in-depth problem and help you make better decisions.
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If things still feel overwhelming, it would be advisable to talk to a therapist.
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Hi... As per your description, it seems you are in a relationship with a manipulative person. You are not sure of your response as you are emotionally, financially, and socially dependent on this guy. Take out whatever he has done for you and your family and your response will be crystal clear. Note: My response is strictly based on your description and nothing else. It is based on very limited information.
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Wellness Greetings to you When you read all your emotions written here, I could evaluate that, you know the truth but you are just scared to accept it so you advocate him from the past with all good deeds he done. Again there is one point which makes you feel bad for your career, that shows insecurity certainly. This relationship isn't heathy in this state of mind. Stabilise yourself as an individual and then invest time or energy either analysing or Altering something in this relationship. Untill then don't assume, nor the good or Bad.
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