Fear of pain while mating

Hi! I got married 10 days ago, i am facing problem while intercourse. I find it scary & painful at every attempt. Tell me something that could help me overcome this fear, any medicine that could numb that part completly so that i cant feel anything, i had used lox lignocaine jelly 2% but its not that effective.
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Dr. Chethan R S Bangalore | General Physician
Hi., Switch positions. If you experience sharp pain during thrusting, the penis may be striking your cervix or stressing the pelvic floor muscles, causing aching or cramping pain. Changing positions may help. You can try being on top of your partner during sex. Women usually have more control in this position, so you may be able to regulate penetration to a depth that feels good to you.... Don't rush. Longer foreplay can help stimulate your natural lubrication. And you may reduce pain by delaying penetration until you feel fully aroused...Use lubricants. A personal lubricant can make sex more comfortable. ..Consult Sex therapist...
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