Extreme anger tantrums. In this case.

I got married 1 and half year back and have 6 months old kid. I used to be patient with any situation I face until before marriage. My marriage took a toll on me and got the best of me. The husband is extremely short tempered and shouts and abuses for silly reasons. 1 and half year of pregancy child birth and child care along with full time job and a angry husband took a toll on me. Now I am always frustrated and easily irritable. Initially, I thoght it is just situational and triggered by circumstances. However, off late I am scared that it might be something serious. I am not able to love anyone. Neither husband, nor mom, any dear ones. I get angry and shout crazily at my mother for silliest of reasons. I want to know if this is situational or a health problem. Not sure if a therapist or psychiatrist would be helpful in this case.