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Erectile problem

My friend says he is getting erected every time whenever he feels horny. He has two partners in his life, one outside n one his wife. He gets proper n healthy sexsual intercource with the outside partner whenever he meets but since 4 years with his wife he does not get feelings nor interest of having sex. So when he trys to have sex with his wife he doesn't get erected. Rather his married life is getting disturb. Further he completely left the outside relation or sex with the outside partner but still the erection problem is having with his wife and he never feels sexsual attraction nor any interest with his wife. Sometime by force he does sex by putting his unerected penis in his wife's vegina n get some rubbing but not completely satisfy sexsual activity. What to do now n how should he save n fullfil the desire of his wife. He feels very sorry n depress for his wife n wnt to satisfy. Please suggest how should he cure himself.
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Sagar KS Bangalore | General Physician
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Hi, Erectile dysfunction is the inability to get and keep an erection firm enough for sex. Having erection trouble from time to time isn't necessarily a cause for concern. If erectile dysfunction is an ongoing issue, however, it can cause stress, affect your self-confidence and contribute to relationship problems. Problems getting or keeping an erection also can be a sign of an underlying health condition that needs treatment. Sometimes, treating an underlying condition is enough to reverse erectile dysfunction. Few causes for erectile dysfunction include, Metabolic syndrome — a condition involving increased blood pressure, high insulin levels, body fat around the waist and high cholesterol, Peyronie's disease — development of scar tissue inside the penis, Certain prescription medications, tobacco use, alcoholism and other forms of substance abuse, sleep disorders, injuries that affect the pelvic area and psychological things include - Depression, anxiety or other mental health conditions, stress, relationship problems due to stress, poor communication or other concerns. So to find the cause some questions needs to be asked and some tests may be looked upon. There are treatments available for erectile dysfunction, so no need to worry, consult a psychiatrist first to find the cause then the treatment. Go for protected sex with outside partner.
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