Do I have ASPD? Which cannot be cured.

I was married 3 years ago, she is a MSc in psychology, our marriage was not smooth one and ended few months back. Her complaint was I have psychological problems like antisocial personality disorder etc, which cannot be treated. When I urged for consultation with an expert psychologist, she says she has already discussed this with many experts and arrived on this conclusion. There was one incident happened while we were married, we had a fight over the telephone and out of rage I went to her house and did shouting etc, which I feel regret later. This is only one such incident in my entire life and never happened before or after that. We used to have arguments and fights, but never fought physically. She is complains that I am verbally abusing her and oppressing her, because of my psychological disorder, which cannot be cured.