Or rather after being dumped. I was dumped last year in a horrible way by my ex girlfriend and I've just become a really bitter, cynical and angry person over time.
I was a really happy-go-lucky type fellow that always saw the best in people and never failed to find the silver lining on the dark clouds until recently, I'm just negative about everything and this has greatly affected my ability to develop an interest in anybody else, I've been dating many other girls but can't seem to like anyone. I don't even like the ex. I don't know what's wrong with me. It's some existential nihilism type stuff.
Any thoughts on how to go back to being my old happy-go lucky self?
Thanks.
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The end of a relationship often feels like the end of the world. After all the time and energy you have invested in it, it is very painful when it gets over. Keep in mind that life is full of ups and downs; nothing is permanent. The pain you feel today will go away with time. Give yourself time to heal. Give time, time. In the meanwhile don't isolate yourself from your friends and family. Confide in someone you are comfortable with. Make a list of life goals, and plan how to achieve them. Relationships are an important part of your life, but they are not everything. Spend time with those close to you, indulge in some enjoyable activities. Keep yourself busy. Slowly you will see that there is a lot to life.
However if you are feeling suicidal, consult a psychiatrist immediately. Don't wait to feel worse
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