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I have lost my 4 months son after surgery as colostomy was made. I found number of lapses at doctors end. I need some clarification Any doctor who can help me out will be highly appreciated. It will be a great kind of act. I am ready to pay the fees.
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I am really sorry to know the loss of your son,,,,May God give you enough strength to bear this unfortunate loss. ,,,,I know you’re upset with this Big loss..............You don’t have to pay any fee, we all doctors at Practo are here to clarify all your questions. ,,, Without knowing much about your case I will try to clarify: 1.)Your 4 months son required such a major surgery it means the problem was serious,,,,,,,,,,2.) Such a majar surgery might have been done by a good Pediatric surgeon of your choice in a good setup.,,,,,,,,,,,,,, ,,,,,3.) But still in the best of hand and the Best of setup : outcome can be adverse which you will think it as due to lapses at the doctor end.,,,,,,,, 4.) I can assure you that Even a worst doctor at worst setup will try his best to save his patient.,,,,,because his reputation is involved in Saving the Life,, and overall Doctor is neither God nor your enemy,,,,,,,,,,5.) Many a times doctors are overworked, many sleepless nights he has spent even at home due to repeated call from the hospitals ,, Therefore most of the time doctors may not communicate to you properly and You may conclude it as lapses at doctors end.,,,6.) We all have our fixed life span, doctors are here to play his role between you and your patients to get credit or blame,, 7.) I may blame you that you should have gone to US to get the positive outcome but you should know even in a Best of Best setup Unwillingly Unfortunately mortality do happens and the doctors feel sorry and arrange the mortality meetings to improve upon that ;; “””what could have been done to save That life.””” 8.) My Message to You or Anyone is that :;; Always choose your doctor and hospital where you have the undivided faith and maintain it even with the adverse of adverse outcome because:;;Having Faith in your doctors will send the positive vibrations from your side to make the doctor take better decisions for you and your family.......and finally save the Live, 10.) This is the everyday practical experience that Faithfulness in the doctors does the miracles in saving life, But today Media is exaggerating shortcomings of few doctors and destroying the Faith at Large between the doctors and the general public leading to loss of faith and adverse outcome, in fact Media should highlight the Success stories as Headlines and shortcomings as the last line, to create more FAITH and better outcome...with the helper of Nature (the poor doctors) REMEMBER EVERYTHING NOT IN OUR HANDS,, ,,,NATURE SAVES THE MOST HOPELESS one with MINIMAL HELP IN A SMALL SETUP if doctor is fortunate enough to get credit,,
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Forgive and forget,,, as the time will pass every thing will be Healed by the Nature
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Whatever happens,, it happens for the best, it’s our weakness that many times we can’t visualise our bright future, Life with the colostomy is very painful for the child as well as the parents, it’s good both are relieved and you’re Lucky, Remember death is the final reality and we search for the cause and if we don’t get, it’s human nature to blame and relieve ourselves.
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