Hello, I’m Dr Simran Shamanur, a General Physician and a sexual medicine consultant.
What you are describing here could be due to performance anxiety brought about by your understanding of sexual intimacy.
A lot of my patients tend to be told by their peers/cousins/sisters that the first time will “hurt like hell!”, or “there will be “bleeding” or “tears”,etc. it isn’t necessarily like that. Proper understanding of the anatomy and the physiology of sexual intimacy could open up new pathways to pleasure.
Please equip yourself with the right kind of sexual knowledge in order to actually enjoy the act.
If you’re still experiencing such doubts and apprehensions about sex, please do take up a consultation.
Answered2023-10-01 11:19:05
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