Recurrent Bartholin cysts are usually treated with the gland-preserving option first. Marsupialisation with a Word catheter keeps the gland intact and carries a lower chance of affecting your natural lubrication, arousal or sensation. Complete gland removal is usually reserved for repeated recurrences after marsupialisation has been tried, and it does carry a higher chance of ongoing dryness and scar tissue.
Next Steps
Discuss marsupialisation as your first option with your gynaecologist, and ask how many recurrences would make gland removal the better choice given you're unmarried.
Health Tips
See a doctor urgently if a cyst turns red, swollen or very painful with fever, since that needs same-day drainage.