Answers..
1) No u r not insulin resistant till now if these levels are without any
sugar related medicines...if these are after taking medicines then also situation is in under cntrl
2)it's in between normal range..
3)Fruits are completely fine for u...if u r experiencing symptoms of
diabetes like excessive thirst, over urination, tiredness, night sweating etc..then avoid jaggery sweats...carbs in limited quantity
4)Again...if these are without any medicines then they are normal or we can say near higher value of normal range...if after medicines these value are coming then situation is in cntrl
5)is absolutely safe and infact good but...keep 30 min to 1hr gap between these 2 medicines
6)Need more details of u because remedies or medicines differ from person to person
As per my observations your arthritis, pcos and these reports have common connection...ie disturbed digestive power. It may have other reason also...proper pathophysiology can drawn after full case taking of you
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