Both of you need help urgently You for sure to understand  sexual gratification, for him to understand that life is not just about work

Madam, Definitely you problems in your personality, May also have anxiety and paranoid towards your husband Some females like this complaints may think "if not with me...with anybody else?" You may not have the above thought "Sexual intimacy alright  during first six months ,then slowly reduced frequency " Is  universal .  If he is maintaining same intimacy throughout from marriage to till date, then only he may need psychology or sexology help. Please understand... He is your life partner Not a sex partner Sex is one aspect of marriage life among hundreds of many other aspects. You should not directly confronted him "Why not intimate like before?" It will cause performance anxiety to males. Sex should be happen spontaneously like breathing, heart beat, digestion after few months of successful intercourse and love making.  If he tried compulsory for your sake in long run.....his love and faith slowly vanish over the time. Concentrate on childbearing, and growing that child Mostly you need some medications minimum for the period of 9months Consult a Psychiatrist Not psychologist or half baked sexologist

Hello, please consult a psychologist. Some marital counselling should help to resolve the problem.

Hello there.  I can understand your concern.  We cannot say for sure if its because of stress that he is inactive sexually or something else. Ask him to take a day off and talk it out with him. We cannot suggest you to cheat on him even if he was cheating on you. So fulfilling your desires outside of your marriage is not really something on which we would comment. You can contact me directly so that i can try to help you better. Or You can take him to a psychiatrist in person for further evaluation and management. Best regards. Dr. Anil kumar jain. Bangalore.