Hello bhavani.
I read ur sufferings and tried to empathize with
ur circumstances. I agree you, it's very tough
time for you to cope with everything around
you. As a human being ,I believe marriage is one
of the big events in life. Husband hold a crucial
role in woman's life, he is her respect &
confidence, but at what cost.
-- If ur husband doesn't replicate the same
emotions as you have for him, it's not
accepted & shouldn't be entertained for long
time from ur side. You & ur family hold a
respect & dignity in ur life , ur self esteem
must not be ruined just for the sake of talking,
eating or being with ur husband. If u r
thinking to do so or you are ready to tolerate
all of ur husband deeds, one thing is sure you
are inviting more trouble to yourself &
allowing him to violate ur basic rights of
happiness.
** As a human being I suggest you to listen ur
mother's talk, discuss with other important
family relatives who have influence over ur
husband & In laws.
** As a Psychiatrist , I believe life & mental peace
is more precious than anything on this planet.
I will not advise you to think or move to ur
husband place despite of all sufferings that
they give to you. That should be handled
socially or legally.
** For your mood , emotions, sleep & appetite,
problems. I will suggest you to visit any
Psychiatrist of ur choice, don't let ur mind
suffer. Medicines are very helpful in such
cases, atleast they give you strength to think
rationally & act accordingly .
Next Steps
** Consult a Psychiatrist immediately.
Health Tips
** Remember ur dignity , respect & self esteem
is equally important .
** Don't neglect urs rights of being happy, ur
happiness equally matters but not at the cost
of ur exploitation.
** You deserve to be respected, loved & cared.
Don't let ur emotions & dignity be
compromised.
** Talk & listen to ur mother ,she will show you
path, don't underestimate her knowledge &
experience.
** Have a safe & peaceful day **