Hello, Is your daughter formally diagnosed as being Autistic? Whether yes or no, it is advisable to consult a Psychologist who may undertake behavior therapy or any other model as deemed fit the psychologist. Therapy will streamline the day of the child bring her schedule in shape to a large extent. Therapy also has a crucial component for parents which shall empower you to become a "therapeutic agent" at home. I strongly suggest you to consult any therapist. Take care