You seem to have issues in marriage life. See a psychotherapist/ clinical psychologist   for couple therapy. You may visit my clinic for the needful.

Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help. He may be having some emotional issues may be due to past relationships failure or some genuine physical concerns.   No worries. It can be addressed if he is willing to  open for a  discuss. Don't show your frustration at him. It fact, you need to support more support as he can't express to others at this point. . Encourage him to openly speak and discuss about your expectations as a friend. You both need to have a marriage counseling to take it further. Atleast you need to handle your depression first. Feel free to reach out to me online for further evaluation and recommendation