Hi, When you say that your husband is a narcissist what do you mean, Pls elaborate. If he is making you feel unworthy and small and constantly placing blame then that is a red flag indeed in a marriage. I would strongly recommend couples therapy and individual therapy. Leaving him or staying is something that you have to decide, you are the best judge of the situation. Are you ok being in a marriage like this? Is he open to therapy and working on the current issues, if yes then that's a good sign. Else, you will need to decide, where from here. Clear your mind, take a decision with a cool head, don't rush into it from a space of anger. Pls let me know of I can support you in any way. Good luck!