Hi, I can understand how frustrating it must be because you’re wanting to help someone out who is in need and you’re not being able to and seeing them being treated badly must be a whole different feeling. I’m glad you’re trying to figure out way to help your family member out and get them the kind of help they require.
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While you’re trying to help them, it is very evident that it’s causing you at lot of stress and anxiety and due to that you’re going through terrible thoughts in your head. It’s basically conflicting thoughts in your head because you want to help someone out and you’re not being able to and at the same time seeing someone being treated badly.
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What I would advice you to do is to channelise your anger and thoughts in a way where you come up with multiple options as to how you can help your family members who are in need. If you can’t bring them to you, what another ways can you think of to help them out. Basically taking your stressful and anxious thoughts, putting them down on paper and rationalising with them and coming out with different solutions and see what works best.
For detailed and further help, please feel free to get intouch with a psychologist for a one on one session and you’ll be able to figure out a direction to your solution faster.
Take care :) and hope this helps